Email the Author

You can use this page to email Scott and Mo Hanselman about Relationship Hacks.

Please include an email address so the author can respond to your query

This message will be sent to Scott and Mo Hanselman

This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google  Privacy Policy and  Terms of Service apply.

About the Book

You might both be geeks, living in some kind of geek paradise collecting Star Wars figurines and comic books and doing scene by scene reenactments of Lord of the Rings. But more likely only one of you is. It is these relationships that are so tricky and that's why my wife and I decided to write this book. These are concrete techniques that we've applied to our (now 12+ year) marriage that were fundamental to our success.

Table of Contents (We'll likely add more)

  • Introduction — Why this book?
  • The Marriage Mission Statement — Why did we do this?
  • The Rule Book — Setting Expectations for Reasonable People
  • Marriage first, kids second - Setting real priorities.
  • Communications — Positioning your ego and your relationship
  • Resentment — It kills relationships and how to avoid it.
  • The Allowance System — Let’s not fight about money
  • It’s Daddy Day! — You each need a cave and that’s OK.
  • Respecting the WAF — The Wife (or Spouse) Acceptance Factor
  • Finding Work-life balance — Get stuff done and play with the kids.
  • Honesty matters — Sharing passwords and more
  • Scheduling Life - Fitting it all in and making time for yourself
  • Appendix - Tools and Products we recommend for a Happy Relationship

About the Author

Scott and Mo Hanselman’s avatar Scott and Mo Hanselman

Scott and Mo have been married for a very long time. Mo is a well-balanced, well-educated thoughtful person with an advanced degree who always sends a thoughtful note and a thank you card. Scott is a programmer.

Logo white 96 67 2x

Publish Early, Publish Often

  • Path
  • There are many paths, but the one you're on right now on Leanpub is:
  • Relationshiphacks › Email Author › New
    • READERS
    • Newsletters
    • Weekly Sale
    • Monthly Sale
    • Store
    • Home
    • Redeem a Token
    • Search
    • Support
    • Leanpub FAQ
    • Leanpub Author FAQ
    • Search our Help Center
    • How to Contact Us
    • FRONTMATTER PODCAST
    • Featured Episode
    • Episode List
    • MEMBERSHIPS
    • Reader Memberships
    • Department Reader Memberships
    • Author Memberships
    • Your Membership
    • COMPANY
    • About
    • About Leanpub
    • Blog
    • Contact
    • Press
    • Essays
    • AI Services
    • Imagine a world...
    • Manifesto
    • More
    • Partner Program
    • Causes
    • Accessibility
    • AUTHORS
    • Write and Publish on Leanpub
    • Create a Book
    • Create a Bundle
    • Create a Course
    • Create a Track
    • Testimonials
    • Why Leanpub
    • Services
    • TranslateAI
    • TranslateWord
    • TranslateEPUB
    • PublishWord
    • Publish on Amazon
    • CourseAI
    • GlobalAuthor
    • Marketing Packages
    • IndexAI
    • Author Newsletter
    • The Leanpub Author Update
    • Author Support
    • Author Help Center
    • Leanpub Authors Forum
    • The Leanpub Manual
    • Supported Languages
    • The LFM Manual
    • Markua Manual
    • API Docs
    • Organizations
    • Learn More
    • Sign Up
    • LEGAL
    • Terms of Service
    • Copyright Policy
    • Privacy Policy
    • Refund Policy

*   *   *

Leanpub is copyright © 2010-2025 Ruboss Technology Corp.
All rights reserved.

This site is protected by reCAPTCHA
and the Google  Privacy Policy and  Terms of Service apply.

Leanpub requires cookies in order to provide you the best experience. Dismiss